Did anyone ever say to you...

When you were in crisis or going through a deep change, did anyone ever stand there and look you deep in the eye and say: “Look sister, I know you have the intelligence, the sensitivity, the wisdom, the tools and the where with all to get through this.” Did anyone ever say that to you – when you really needed to hear it? Did anyone ever say: “You know sister, I am confident that you are going to see what you’re supposed to see and learn what you’re supposed to learn.” Did anyone? Did someone say to you: “I know you can do it, I know you can embrace it, feel it, live it…? And I’m here for you if you need someone to talk to and lean on when the going gets tough.”

Well probably not. At least that’s my experience. If that’s your experience too, it might be because even the closest person in the world to you right now doesn’t know how to handle you being in crisis, doesn’t have the tools or the confidence to deal with deep change. It also could be that your fear and anxiety and uncertainty awaken the same fear, anxiety and uncertainty in the other person – so it upsets them and they can’t be there for you.

So I want to say 2 things: First, I have faith in you! Why? Because if you are reading my blog, it means you have the tools and the intelligence and the will to get through deep change and crisis. You wouldn’t be here right now reading this if this wasn’t true. You’d be watching TV or out shopping. It also means you are probably starting to understand that crisis (no matter how scary) is good because it’s giving you the opportunity to look at all the things (or some of the things) that are holding you back from living your life fully and freely and to the maximum.

The other thing I want to say is that if nobody out there ever had faith in you – it’s about time YOU HAVE FAITH IN YOU! I want to say to you – you can do it for yourself. You can faith in you. You can have the faith, the trust, the strength and the courage to be there for you and to know that the ultimate Goodness (God Himself) is on your side! This is your most important job. Being there for YOU…!