Relationships suck!

I'm supposed to give a talk on Saturday about relationships so I was thinking about what I was going to talk about - and you know what came to mind? Relationships suck!

Now what in the world could make me think something like that? Well it was because I was thinking that since we're not clear, how can we possibly expect to have good relationships? I mean our relationships are just a reflection of our own state of consciousness and since most of us haven't got a clue, how can our relationships be good?

Well you might be saying, some of us do have good relationships. And yes, I'd say, some of us do. But if you look closely you'll discover that the people who have what we call good relationships - usually have relationships with someone who agrees with them. That's probably the definition of a good relationship - when 2 people agree. The minute they stop agreeing, the relationship usually ends. Unless of course they are very very high in consciousness!

So what can we do? Well I guess the only thing we can do is try to get clear ourselves. Try to wake up and see what's really going on. Why do I say this - because most of us don't know who we are or what's going on or what we want  ... and if we do we're probably not honest enough to ask!

So I guess what I'm going to say is that as long as we go on looking for answers out there in other people instead of in here in us... well... then our relationships are going to suck!